They say you should go out you kept saying you are an introvert.
You are an indoor person.
No connection.
No business links.
You are single to stupor.
And you won't stop shouting "God when?"
See, going out is not about doing bad things where you go to. You can't meet people Indoor.
People you meet online are not 100% real until you meet them in person.
You will be wallowing on bed like maggot.
Hangout you won't go, get together you will lock yourself up indoor like a prisoner.
You want every thing to come and be meeting you at home, Pele o magnet tasha.
See, at the end of the month, organise a little hangout or picnic amongst you and your friends, let your friends invite their friends too.
This is where you'll connect with new people not the ones that you have been friends with since nursery school.
Exchange contacts and tell them what you do.
You kukuma don't know how to introduce yourself to people, let me help your ministry.
Wear a fine smile and let your carriage be a top one.
Stretch forth your hand for handshake.
Be bold and confident.
"Hi, my name is Adeyemi, I am a writer and I work with so so so, what about you?"
The person you are meeting will be impressed.
And from there if you like what he or she does, strike a conversation from there, if he or she is elegant enough, exchange contact.
You can make magic happen in future.
Not necessarily dating, it could be business deals or other connections and referrals.
Amd when you are done talking.
End it with...
"Pleased to meet you, it was nice having a great moment with you, I hope we can do this some other time"
See if a guy or lady tells me this, the respect I'll have for him or her will be top notch.
But No, you have turned yourself to snail, always in your shell.
Beatrice go out!
You are not a TV stand.
If you like stay indoor.
Na you sabi.
#adewrites
Adewrites inc.
No comments:
Post a Comment